Thinking about a natural birth in Irving, Farmer’s Branch, Coppell or surrounding cities instead of a hospital experience?
Meeting your midwife is the first big step.
That first visit sets the tone for your whole pregnancy. You’ll talk about your health, your hopes for birth, and the kind of care that feels right for you. It’s also your chance to ask questions. Lots of them.
In this guide, you’ll learn:
- When to schedule your first visit
- What happens during that appointment
- Questions to ask your midwife
- How to prepare so you feel relaxed and ready
- What comes next after you leave
Let’s take it one step at a time.
Timing Your Meet the Midwife Visit (First Trimester)
Just found out you’re pregnant? Congratulations!
That’s the perfect time to start thinking about your first visit.
Most families book their “meet the midwife” appointment between 8 and 12 weeks of pregnancy. That’s early enough to:
- Confirm your due date
- Talk through your health and medical history
- Get started on prenatal labs and vitamins
- Share your goals for a calm, natural birth
Ever had that moment of, “I’m pregnant, now what?”
This visit helps answer that question.
Getting in early also helps your midwife confirm that you’re a low-risk pregnancy, which is ideal for a birth center setting. If you already know you want to deliver somewhere cozy like BirthPointe Women’s Health & Birth Center, it’s smart to book early. Natural birth spaces tend to fill up fast.
Tip: Reach out as soon as you see that positive test. Even if it feels early, you’ll thank yourself later.
➡️ Ready to get started? Contact BirthPointe to schedule your visit.
What Your Midwife Checks During That First Visit
Your first visit isn’t just about lab work or checklists.
It’s about connection.
You’ll spend time talking and learning about each other. Here’s what usually happens.
1. Sharing your story
Your midwife will ask about:
- Previous pregnancies or births
- Any health conditions or surgeries
- Your work, stress levels, and lifestyle
- Family health background
This helps them get to know you, not just your chart. It also guides your care plan moving forward.
2. Simple health checks
Most midwives will:
- Take your blood pressure and weight
- Order basic blood and urine tests
- Talk about an early ultrasound or genetic screening
Nothing here should feel rushed or clinical. You’ll have time to ask questions along the way.
3. Making sure birth-center care fits your needs
Your midwife will explain what “low-risk” means and make sure it matches your situation.
If you need extra medical attention, they’ll help you plan that too.
At BirthPointe, this first visit usually lasts about an hour. You’ll get time to breathe, talk, and see how it all works. Most parents leave saying, “That was so much calmer than I expected.”
➡️ Curious about how our care works? Take a look at BirthPointe’s prenatal care.
Questions to Ask Your Midwife
This is your time to learn and get comfortable. Bring a notebook or your phone so you don’t forget things.
Here are some great questions to ask.
About their care
- “How would you describe your approach to birth?”
- “What kind of births do you usually attend?”
- “If I need to go to the hospital, what happens?”
This helps you see if your expectations line up with theirs.
About the plan
- “How often will I come in for visits?”
- “Do you do ultrasounds here or refer out?”
- “What happens if I go past my due date?”
About safety
- “What’s your process if there’s an emergency?”
- “Who’s on call if you’re away?”
- “How do you handle transfers?”
These are not “hard” questions. They show that you care about your experience and safety. A good midwife will welcome them.
Extra tip: Ask how your partner or support person can be involved. Many birth centers encourage family participation.
➡️ Want to talk to someone here at BirthPointe? Send us a quick message.
How to Prepare for Your Visit
There’s no need to stress. You don’t need to memorize anything or fill out piles of paperwork ahead of time.
A few small steps can make it go smoothly.
Bring:
- Your list of medications or supplements
- Your last period date or ultrasound results
- Medical records from other providers if you have them
- A list of questions or birth preferences
- Your insurance card or payment info
You can also bring a partner or friend if that helps you feel at ease.
The main thing to bring is an open mind. This first visit is about starting a partnership.
Share your hopes. Ask honest questions. Be yourself.
At BirthPointe, you’ll also tour the space, meet the team, and get your next appointment dates. It feels more like meeting with a friend who happens to be very good at her job.
➡️ Want to learn more before you come in? Send us a quick message.
What Happens After Your Visit
After you’ve met your midwife, your prenatal journey begins.
Most midwives schedule visits:
- Every 4 weeks until around 28 weeks
- Every 2 weeks from 28 to 36 weeks
- Weekly after 36 weeks
Each visit feels personal and relaxed. You’ll hear your baby’s heartbeat, talk about how you’re feeling, and get advice on nutrition, rest, and labor prep.
If you’ve only experienced short doctor visits before, this will feel different. You’ll actually have time to talk.
Your midwife will also help you:
- Write your birth plan
- Learn early signs of labor
- Get ready for postpartum recovery
One important topic to cover early is transfer planning. Every birth center has a clear process if you need to move to a hospital. It’s rare, but knowing the plan ahead of time keeps everyone calm.
➡️ Want to see what your next visits might look like? Explore our prenatal schedule.
Special Things to Know About Natural Birth
Choosing midwifery care isn’t just about where you give birth.
It’s about the experience you want to have.
Midwives see birth as a natural process, not a medical emergency.
That’s why midwife-led care often means:
- Fewer cesareans
- Fewer inductions
- More time to labor your own way
- Higher satisfaction for moms and partners
Birth centers like BirthPointe are designed for comfort. You might labor in a private suite with soft lighting, your favorite playlist, or a warm tub. It feels peaceful instead of clinical.
Cities like Irving, Farmer’s Branch, Coppell, Carrollton, Grand Prairie, Arlington, Dallas, Lewisville, Flower Mound, Corinth, Denton, Southlake, Hurst, Euless, Bedford, and Fort Worth have strong community of parents who’ve chosen this path. Many connect through prenatal yoga, support groups, or postpartum meetups. You’ll never feel like you’re doing this alone.
During your meet-the-midwife visit, share what’s important to you. Do you want a water birth? Do you want to walk around freely during labor? Say it out loud. Your midwife can help you plan for it.
➡️ Want to see the space in person? Schedule a tour at BirthPointe.
MdO Family Traci is an amazing midwife! She is one of those people that makes you feel very comfortable and truly heard. She delivered my 8th baby a few years ago, and I didn’t hesitate to call her when we found out #9 was on the way! BirthPointe is a beautiful birth center, but Traci was so generous to come deliver with us at home. She invests herself fully in the health and well-being of her clients and their families, so much so that she knows all the names of my children and they’re always so excited when they get to see her. I recommend her without reservation!
Quick Takeaways
- Book early. Aim for 8–12 weeks pregnant.
- Bring questions. This visit is your chance to learn.
- Expect calm and care. Midwives take time to listen.
- Ask about your options. You’re part of every decision.
- Natural birth is possible. You just need the right team.
➡️ Think this sounds right for you? Schedule your first visit today.
FAQs
1. When should I schedule my first midwife appointment?
As soon as you can. Most people come in between 8 and 12 weeks pregnant.
2. What happens during that visit?
You’ll review your health history, get basic checks and lab work, and spend time getting to know your midwife.
3. What should I bring?
Medical info, insurance card, and your questions. Wear comfy clothes and come ready to talk.
4. How is a midwife visit different from a doctor’s appointment?
Midwife care is slower-paced, more personal, and centered around natural, low-risk pregnancies. You’ll have more time to connect.
5. What happens after the first visit?
You’ll keep coming in regularly, learn more about your pregnancy, and plan for your birth and postpartum care together.
Conclusion
That first meeting with your midwife is the start of something special.
You’ll talk about your story, your hopes, and the kind of care you want. You’ll leave with a clear plan and a partner who’s walking beside you for the rest of your pregnancy.
If you’re in Irving, Farmer’s Branch, Coppell and surrounding cities and looking for a more natural, relaxed birth experience, we’d love to meet you.
Schedule your visit and see what midwife care feels like for yourself.
➡️ Book your “Meet the Midwife” visit at BirthPointe.